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How can I help my fiancee enjoy sex?

My wife to be doesn’t like sex. She says its not me, that she has never enjoyed it she has only been with one other person. An didn’t like it with him ethier. I just want to make were she wants to have sex. She says we can have sex once a month and that is pushing it.. I have a high sex drive. I have tried to talk to her about it and she keeps telling me the same thing that she just don’t think about it.. She says she don’t masterbate and she gets mad at me cause she says that I make sex to important. I try to tell her and I mean it that I enjoy making love to her cause of how close we feel and the conection we make… I just want to make her happy thats all what can I do

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Answer #1

Dear pvfd679, Sex is indeed a very important part of a relationship. This is something that should have been addressed before marriage. She could of had a bad experience during her life and never had counselling for it. She could have a very low sex drive or like some just does not enjoy sex. This is why communication is a must in good relationships. This is the time for the both of you to seek out counselling either separately or with a marriage counsellor. Once you find out why she feels the way she does that is half the battle. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

You may not be able to help her enjoy anything. She may want to talk with a profesional. There are many possible causes that I wouldn’t attempt to answer here. This I do know. Sex is intended for pleasure. (a good book btw.)

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