How can I find someone to live with to escape abuse?

My Step-Dad is really abusive not in hiting but in emotinal ways but the childrens aid keeps coming out here and says thers been complants of yelling and i am threatend to lie and say eveything is ok when its not and they have a new baby and i am not allow to hold him beacuse they dont want my droping him but i can drop him if i am sitting and when i go to talk to my mom about him she doesent want to talk about it my mom only marryed him beacuse he has a lot of money but every one in my family hates hime and he keeps threating to kill my boy friend so i want to move out i just dont have anyone to go to and my parents will literly kill my if i called for help from it all so how do i find someone to move out with and my grandparents and my boyfriend are not an option and my real father is dead so not him help my find a place to go and what to do about telling some one about the abuse - btw i am 14 and my boyfriend is 18

Answer #1

I would secretly tape the abuse (so it can’t be denied/evidence) and get the tape to authorities, if other options are not available…I wish you happiness in your future !!

Answer #2

Wow that’s not good. I’m sorry his abusive. Really girl you must tell somone. Think about it.. would to rather send him to jail or fell fear in your life forever. Think about your mother and your new sibling. I’m sorry you dad died. Also if you call for help they can’ kill you they will take you away from them. You will be placed with family or a new family to be kept safe and they wont know where your at. I would say… get proof of the abuse.. record it secretivey then play it to an adult that you trust KEYWORD trust. Get out of the house FAST you shouldn’t be in that invorment. I’m sorry if none of my advise works.. but I hope you can get out of this.. .. some people you might tell are - counsular at school, ant, uncle, best friends mom/dad, boyfriends mom/dad, or the good old police.. oh I hate calling the police though.. i once had to because my friend threaten to have a school shooting.. omg they like put me on hold then hung up on me lol.. nice huh.. well i hope you get out of this and best of luck with your boyfriend.

Answer #3

I agree with xxlovehurtsbabexx. You should tell someone no matter what. Then you can have a better chance of getting out of this bad situation! Hope I helped.

Answer #4

GO TO A DAMN FOSTER HOME ITS NOT THAT BAD AND YOUR PARENTS CANT TOUCH YOU OR TALK TO YOU LIKE THAT WHEN YOUR IN THE LAWS HANDS…

Answer #5

Yes, the best thing you can do is to tell someone. Do you really want your new sibling to have to go through all the trouble that you have had to go through. Talk to your school counseler or a teacher and by rights they have to help you. If you can’t video tape the abuse go and get a tape recorder from your school so you have pure evidence. Please do something, people like your step-dad shouldn’t be allowed to be near kids and should be put in his place. Please let me know how your doing, FunMail me. You shouldn’t have to live your life like this, you only have one chance and you should be able to live it to your fullest. ~Alanna

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