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Sorry this may be a bit long its a very Long painful Story! But I Really Need Advice I Feel Really Down.

My mum lied, went behind EVERYONES back and kept BIG secrets from me and my sister. ok, so what happend was she met a man ( I dont know how, I think over the internet) she'd be on the computer everynight when she could talking to him. I didnt think anything of it at the time.. I was about 10 then, over the next 2 years she would go and visit HIM in Algeria but tell us she was going to germany to help her friend move she went about 3 times. Me and my elder sister were routing around one day when I was 12 and we found a brown envelope.. This contained photographs of my mother and a islamic family, My mum was wearing an orange sheet type thing and cutting a cake witch said happy Marriage on. Me and My Sister couldnt believe it and couldnt quite understand what was going on

When mum came home from work She Saw the pictures we left on the floor and explained that she was married now to this man in the picture that we had never sopken to or met. It made me very upset and I cryed a lot. I couldnt belive she married a random man from Africa!

We moved house about 2 years ago then he moved in with us! Mum sed he was going to move in about 2months before he did, just when I had started to forget about it all. I told her I didnt want a strange man living with me, but she just sulked which made me feel bad and I finally said fine! But we agreed that if I didnt feel happy we could sort something else out. It was arquard the day I met him I just stared at him and hated my mum, he could hardly speak english!

now im 15 and im sooo annoyed with my mum

Its really strange too because they are not like afectionate to each other they never kiss or hug or anything in front of me (which I think is fine because that would make me feel even sicker) He leaves the bathroom in a thilthy mess (which I cant stand) Because he prays five times a day and all the reliegious stuffhe has to do he washes his nose out in the sink but this leaves his snot everywhere. Because he lives in my house im not alloud any boy friends round. Were not alloud to buy normal meat it has to be halal or sumin, so if I wanted tescos chicken kiev I'd have to buy and cook it myself. I've talked to her and told her how I feel but we both just ended up crying.

Wats More! is they are trying for a baby which makes me feel even worse, I feel like shes turned into him and im just the person left behind, my sisters left home so she doesnt care. I just sit in my room if im not at school or out with friends.

This is just the half of it.

I just dont know what to do. Please Help Me :(