My mom hates me

I googled up an article of a girl who’s parents hate her, the link lead me to this site.

My mom is really being unfair with me, atleast I think so-

-she NEVER and I mean NEVER listens to my opinion. -when I try to correct her mistakes she calls me an idiot, but when it clears out that I was right she wont talk to me, and when I ask several times she calls me a psyhopat an idiot and even worse names and gives me punishments

When people offer me something or talk to me she always buds in to say something bad about me.

For example my grandmother asks if I want some pancakes, I say not now thanks. and my mom says to her that she shouldnt waste her time on a lazy idiot like me etc.

several times she said that she hates me and she doesnt love me.

she is divorced with my dad and I live with her in an another country and she always speaks bad things about the dads side of the family, but dads side always wishes her good luck and talk good about her family side.

I live alone with her and she lost my bath robe which was a really expensive one, that I got on my birthday from dad. She kept borrowing it and all of a sudden it disappeared. After looking everywhere I asked her did she loose it and she started calling me names again and I went searching for it again and she didnt want to help, im sure she lost it but whenever I ask she starts calling me names.

she has a hard job and is stressed but is that an excuse to let it out on me? I allmost went living with my dad ,but I love her too much to leave her alone I don’t know what to do. shes really making me depressed.

Answer #1

Your mom doesn’t sound like she hates you - she sounds like she is letting her own personal issues be taken out on you in a negative way.

Have you tried talking to her about how you feel and how all of this is affecting you? Try talking to her or if you can’t get the courage, write her a letter. Tell her exactly how you feel. She may not even realize she is doing it. It sounds to me like she is struggling with some things and letting her anger and problems get the best of her.

Answer #2

my mom hates too she always freakin swares at me and yells im sooo sick of it.All my brother does is laugh at me…he thinks he’s sooo perfect.Since my mom and dad are spilt up too and I dont know who to live with sometimes I feel like runnng in front a car.I kwn she raised me in all but thnk im closer with a rock than with her.I realy just want to go live with my dad. I feel your pain

Answer #3

I say go live with your dad.. make her miss you..but before that express your feelings to her if she doesnt want to listen then tell her your leaving with dad. her hard job can have a lot to do with it..and also think that the divorce they had could have another part in it.. how long has this been going on?

Answer #4

dude your mum sounds so much like mine.

leave her man she doesnt give 2 sh1ts about you the psycho 13itch is just using you for money from the government. ditch the h0.

seriously your concern is wasted on that 13itch.

If you dont mate shes just going to ditch you first. NO JOKE.

it is going to be really hard on you kid. BUT MAKE NO MISTAKE. shes in the wrong NOT YOU.

When the gov stops paying for you shes gona throw you out the f()cking door. Trust me mate YOU DONT WANT TO GO THERE.

Just ditch the shallow pole humping h0 and forget that f()cking 13itch.

You know those selfish assh0les at school who care only about themselves? thats your mum grown up. shes a asshole F()CKING UP YOUR LIFE.

if you give a single sh1t about yourself you will LEAVE THAT GODDAMN HO

and dude it sounds like shes rippin on your confidence and ego. so you think you deserve shallow pieces of sh1t like her. when you get on your feet man your gona see shes a complete bag of sh1t. trust me.

you just need to leave before you get TO F()CKIN DEEP.

Goodluck kid, kick your mum in the face for me. peace.

Answer #5

Wow..she sounds soo much like mine…whenever something will go wrong and get her pissed she will blow everything off on me. There was this one time I JUST GOT HOME from school and she started yelling and calling me names becuase of the way I looked at her this morning…she calls me all these bad words and does nothing to her other kids because im from her “other marriage”. Even right now, with the economy she cant find a job and shes blaming me for it because she could go to college when she was young because she was pregnant with me..and somehow thats my fault. She also yells at me that I dont share anything with her–like about my life, and I never like to because she always tells me that she is my mother, not my friend.

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