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What to do if my mom hates my friend?

So my mom really hates this girl that was my BESTFRIEND over the summer but I got in trouble for this things we did. And now my mom really hates her. But I talked to my friend today and she said she wants to talk to my mom to work things out but I’m scared that my mom will be a bitch. What are some good things to say to my mom to get her to like my friend again. Cause we both miss hanging out and my mom said I wasn’t even allowed to talk to her :( that’s how much she hates her. Please help, I want my bestfriend back!!!

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Answer #1

im not an expert on advice and stuff but I think you should just tell your mum that she cant pick your friends for you, as harsh as it is, its true. my friends had the same problem but with her dad. he wouldnt let her hang out with about half of her friends until she sat him down and said, dad you cant pick my friends for me I am grown up enough to make my own decisions now. you wouldnt like iit if I picked your mates etc.. even thoughh her dad still dislikes her mates he pretends to like them just for her :) x

if you do try my advice good luckk :):) xx

Answer #2

That friend might want to make that request in a letter to your Mom, apologizing for past mistakes and assuring she will not be a negative influence on her daughter or compromise your values in any manner - be extremely nice, give her assurances…phone calls every 5 mins if necessary…take care !!

Answer #3

Well according to your profile anyways you are almost an adult. Sit your mom down and talk to her and let her know your feelings. Remind her people make mistakes but its all part of the growing up process. Let her know that you and said friend have learned something from the past actions and have matured since then.

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