How can I make my kids more respectful?

Well, I’m not a boy. But I am a 14 year old girl and just a reminder all kids their age are going through puberty and all of that fun stuff. They don’t even realize they are being disrespectful. I don’t when I talk fresh to my parents. It’s just a phase teenagers go through, I’m sure you went through the same thing. Mood swings and all. We are getting older and we’re going through a lot of changes. Good and bad changes. We can’t be happy little angels all the time. My mom is more laid back, when I talk disrespectfully towards her she just asks me nicely to stop and sometimes I say okay, and other times I say whatever and walk away. It depends on our mood and what kind of day we’re having. My dads a little on the meaner side, if I talk disrespectfully or do something disrespectful he’ll yell at me and sometimes punish me. Honestly, it doesn’t work. It puts me in a worse mood and makes it so I don’t want to be respectful towards him. I don’t know why but that’s how it makes me feel. Just be patient with your boys and keep in mind they’re growing up..

im 14 and im a girl tho but they dont sound as bad as they could be like I swear at my parents and say no all the time so they sownd preti gud

Also that’s not much of a relationship with your boys. You seem like you barely spend time with them. I spend more time with my mom then I do with my dad and me and her are much closer. I have a lot more respect for my mom because she’s funner, cooler, and gives me the time of day. You know? Spend more time with them. Take them somewhere theyyy want to go. Show them a good time. When I go somewhere with my mom we blast the music in the car and sing and have fun. But maybe it’s a mother-daighter thing. I’m not sure, but it might help with you and your sons relationships and their attitude towards you..

im 17 and you knoww there are many times when I am disrespectful to my parents, I dont want to be but its just the teenage years. remember your kids are growing up so they want to become a little more independent. punish them with phones,cars, computer, going out, and stuuf like that for like a caouiple days or a week depending on how severe.

its not just your kids I would say about 70-80% of kid that age have no respect its normal. just keep doing what your doing. take privlidges away, ground them or try talking to the mabout how you feel about this. hope this helps :) feel free to fun mail me