how would you raise your kids?

<> this might be a little long<><X> am asking this question just out of boredom<X> there many ways to raise a kid.I try to think of raising a kid in 2 simple raise. Dependent and Independent. so how would you raise a kid between the two. and how do you think you was raise? but before you answer ill give some detail

ok for like Dependent. it where you raise your kid while being like apart of there life. you help make there choices. you help them do almost everything. and you try to make them as safe as possible so like for example: your kids gotta be in the house by 7pm in the summer.you try to stop your kid from making mistakes. so if your kid want to go to a party. you probably would say no. cause of how late they would be home ect. and you do your best to support your kid. <> for my personal thought on this: I don’t really like this way. cause how is your kid going to learn about the real world. and learn to do things on his own. if your alway there. now some kids would like to be raise like this. matter of fact I bet almost everything or teen would like to be raise of this<>

Independent: for this you try to let your kid live there life.without jumping in it every 5 second. but still you still help your kid sometime when they really need it.you every keep a track on where your kid off but you try not to be over his shoulder all the time. so say if your 14 year old boys wanted to go to a friend house at 9:30pm and spend a night there.and he would have to walk like 2 blocks. some parents would say no. cause they don’t trust there kid to be walking at that time. this is not where you let your kid do everthing they want. but you give them more room to live there life to the fullest. some kids when they got a problem they don’t want there parents help. you learn from making a a mistake <> my personal thought on this: this is not a bad way of raising a kid just be careful. this will help your kid make smarter choices when they might be alone and need help. and it will help other things ect. ect. <>

each one got there own pro and cons

I was raise I would say independent: I never try to lean on my mother for help. I think the reason I turn out to depend on myself was probably because my father died when I was young. so of course I didn’t have no male figure to talk to when I needed some help ( my mother didn’t alway think of the smartest choices). so I found depending on myself more fitting for me. it made me smarter all the around. I do more things on my own. which make thing easier on my mother and grandma. of course I still need some help doing certain things :D (cooking,Washing clothes,ect.). ect. ect.

so in which way would you raise your kid or (kids).? and which way do you think you was raise. and did you like it and why?

Thank :D