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My grandma passed away
My grandma passed away last night, I was the one who got the call. I’m 19. Growing up she was always like a second mother to me and my sisters, we spent the night, fed us and took us out shopping all the time. I don’t feel like any of this is real…I’m practically emotionless…at times I break down but then I make myself strong for the sake of being happy she isn’t suffering anymore and I stay strong for the rest of my family. Tuesdays the funeral and viewing it’s going to be an open casket…when I was younger I was always removed from situations like this so I feel as though I’m not going to be able to be strong at the funeral, and I dont know if I can look at her that way. Please help I need advice.
well first off let me say im very sorry for your loss… its okay tyo break down and cry espcially losing someone close to you actually when they have the open casket it wont be that bad they look like there sleeping they even have makeup on its okay to cry and look away when you see here it happens just know that shes in a happier place now good luck!
It is okay to cry everyone has to cry sometimes. If you will just go somewhere alone and cry and get it all out of you, you should feel a little better. You are having a bad time right now and the one that you need the most is God. Just pray that he will help you stay strong and help put your mind at ease.
I KNOW EXACTLY HOW you FEEL…SORRY FOR your LOST..MY GRANDMOTHER PASSED JANUARY 08 AND I DIDNT KNOW HOW TO ACT EITHER..I WAS CRYING ALL THE TIME AND I WENT INTO DEPRESSION..ITS HARD AND AT TIMES you WILL ASK your SELF WHY THIS HAD TO HAPPEN..BUT BELIEVE SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE NOW…SHE LIVED HER LIFE AND HAD HER SHARE OF JOY BUT THE GOOD LORD WAS CALLING HER HOME AND THERE IS WHERE SHE WILL BE WATCHING OVER YOU…ITS OKAY TO CRY BELIEVE ME I STILL DO IT TILL THIS DAY..ONLY CAUSE I MISS THE TIMES WE USE TO HAVE AND LOOKING BACK ON HOW SHE RAISED ME…BUT IN THE END SHE IS IN MY HEART AND THERE SHE WILL DWELL…U GOTTA LEARN TO LET GO BUT NOT TO FORGET …LET HER REST…BUT REMEMBER EVEN THOUGH YOU CANT SEE HER SHE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE…: :)
Sorry for your loss. Below is a site that may help.
Coping with Grief and Loss
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/grief_loss.htm
Simply a Rose to brighten your day, And maybe lessen the cares in your way; And also, too, to help you to know, That in knowing you, many others grow!
hey…sorry for the loss… I agree with the others saying that it is okay to cry…once when the funeral is about to be done…take time to think. if you think you can be there to see your grandma in the open casket…then stay and watch if you think you can’t…then I suggest you stay out for awhile when you lose somone that was very close to you…it takes time to heal pain is almost like a cut…”it hurts but in time it will heal”… When you feel like breaking down…take it easy and tell yourself that your okay… if it feels you cant get over this…then find something that will occupy you… goodluck in the long run…
crying actually does make you feel better. and I feel so terrible about your lost I live with my grandma in the summer and I don’t know what I would do if anything happened!! I am so sorry! god did this for a reason don’t worry hes in gods hands we dont always understand all of this but it happens! Im sorry go and hang out with friends and get your mind of things!
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