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My girlfriend still loves her ex

I have been in a relationship with this girl for 3 months and everything has been fine until we decided to move in togeather. She was sueing her exboyfriend and the court date was a week after we moved in to our house. After seeing him again, in court, for the first time in months she realized she still loves him. Now she doesn’t know if she wants him back or wants us to work out. He treated her extreamly badly, stole from her, lied to her but none of this seems to matter. She says that she has thought of all of that but her heart won’t let her let go. I am considering letting go of her so she doesn’t have to worry about making a choice but on the other hand I don’t want to see her make a big mistake because he will be just as bad this time around as last time. He is the type that won’t change and even if he could change they have not been apart long enough for it. What should I do?

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Answer #1

You shouldn’t move in with a girl after only 3 months… BAD IDEA. And if she still loves her ex after everything he did to her… she’s got ZERO self-esteem. No respect for herself, and apparently no respect for you either. She’s a flake. You think HE’S the type that won’t change? SHE probably won’t either, so you’d be better off without her.

Answer #2

best thing is to leave , if you are faithful and loyal and if the girl doesn’t value that much I guess you don’t need to be with her,u must not be hopeless that you may not get a good girls, there are plenty of girls, millions , so don get worried about that , life is full of such things

Answer #3

get rid of her. there’s a saying that goes “don’t make someone your priority when you’re only their option.”

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