My ex girlfriend and I broke up and I still love her.

I met this girl last year and I didn’t really know her and I became good friends with her. I ended up asking her if she would be my girl friend and she said yes. well everything was great for about 3 or 4 months then it all started going down hill. We broke up and got back together the next week. Well it kinda happened again, ( don’t know why I tried so hard to stay with her), well we had been broke up for about 4 months and it was half way through the summer and we got back together and she said I changed and broke up with me and now I still have feelings for her. I don’t know how to tell her or anything. I want to give up on her but I don’t know why I can’t. Can anyone tell me what I need to do?

Answer #1

Is she your ‘first love’? If she is- that is probably why you cant ‘give up on her’. Sometimes we get attached to the idea of love, or being in love and its not actually because the actual person. Does that make sense? The on and off again is normal for young loves- its just co-dependancy. If its meant to be with this girl it will happen, but I think you need to explore your options- dont get stuck on this one girl that you couldnt even have a good relationship with.

Answer #2

Their is term for this it is called stuck in the friend zone. Once you are in the zone you there forever. Your best bet is to move on.

Answer #3

You situation with this girl obviously isn’t going to get much better without a lot of very hard work from both of you. If I were you I would move on, its almost impossible to save an already sinking ship.

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