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My friends have been acting different around me why?

I went to VA in the beginning of the summer for 2 weeks I had a BLAST! My best friend (we’ll just call her L) kept on sending me emails assuring me that she was having fun to and she was hanging out a lot with my other friend (we’ll call her H) So L and H were hanging out a lot I was totally fine with it. They love this band called My Chemicle Romance. SO they made this website with they’re friend A. Who I love I love A but she can be a bit bossy and rude. So what I found out was that when I went to VA all three of them were hanging out a lot. When I got back they hung out a lot, and they were having a sleepover but L and H said that I would not want to come over to A’s house because they were having some boring meeting. Yea well thet “BORING MEETING” was a shopping spree and a sleepover. They lied and now H is being really mean to me. And they are always keeping secrets from me, and they treat me like crap when L and H are together. I don’t like H most of the time.

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Answer #1

Honestly, they are most likely jealous and always have been. When you went away, the separation gave them the chance to come together and form a new group. The jealously turned them against you but don’t let it get to you. Find friends who do the same things as you and don’t lie to you.

Hope that helped some.

Answer #2

I’ve had kinda same thing but within school when my friend started giving her a lift home but its all okay know,

maybe while you was away their found their got more stuff in common but maybe their just not real friends you can find people much better then them. :)

Answer #3

Well, you don’t like A because she is rude, you don’t like H because she is mean and a liar, and L seems to be siding with H and being mean as well. These people seem very catty and almost like “mean girls”. I would ditch them. A true blue friend would NEVER purposely hurt you. Think about it, 10 years from now…will you be best friends with these people? Probably not. Find new friends or focus on the things you love to do. funmail me if you need more advice!

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