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Should my ex son-in-law have visitation?

My daughter married a the love of her life at the age of 19. They wanted a baby as soon as they said I DO. When the baby was three months old he left her and the baby and went back with his ex girlfriend who married and divorced. Here is a few things about this girl. She has three children by three different men, she has been a stripper and a woman about town with no morals. Now this man has married her three days after my daughter got her final divorce paper. He wants to have visits with this slut of a wife he has and she has been known not to be a good mother to her own children. What do you all think???

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Answer #1

I think it’s awful that a parent could leave his child after it’s barely been born, and my heart goes out to your daughter and her baby.

As heathershaw05 has said, I think if visitation rights are given, they should be supervised visits if the new wife is really that bad. But remember, the child has a right to know their father. Time will tell if he can be a good father, but let the child make up their mind about whether he is or not. The best thing you can do is step in, and take on as much of a role as you can in this child’s life, making sure they can express their feelings if needbe and you can give advice when they ask. If you can give this child a supportive family background, and Dad doesn’t measure up, the child will probably make decisions about Dad on their own. So in that sense, you’ll be empowering the child.

Best of luck.

Answer #2

I think that is messed up … I mean he is the father soo… he has to rights… I just dont think he should bring the slut. I think its pretty sad. but what can you do?

Answer #3

Yes he should have visitation for the child’s sake, but maybe they should be monitored visits if his new wife is as bad as you say… it doesn’t sound like a good situation for the child though, especially with the tension that there is between your daughter and her ex.

Answer #4

I don’t think that its right for him not to have rights to see his baby. It’s his and he’s showing he loves his child very much by wanting to be there instead of just leaving. You may not feel its the right time to let him see his child but in the long run when the babys older its father will be a big aspect in his life. It’s hard but he would never hurt his child and he wouldn’t let his wife either. He wants to be there so let him

Answer #5

Dear kylady, They need to go to court to establish visitations and custody. If your daughter can prove their home is unfit they can have visitation else where. She can have the courts give her total custody of the child…meaning she would be in full control of the situation. If they do not go to court he has equal custody at this point. If your daughter is that concerned she would go to court. Sue…good luck

Answer #6

doesnt matter if he wasnt there for 3months hes still the father… he has right I seen fathers not there for half the kids lifes and still got rights… like lex icon said if the new wife is that bad they should ask for supervised visits when shes around… theres nothing you or her can really do… except if shes proves hes a bad father or if hes doing drugs or something this happens to girls all the time… kinda sad..

Answer #7

he probably should visit but you should tell him he can’t bring his wife.

Answer #8

have you not seen where all these boyfriends and girlfriends have hurt step children, how old are you anyway?

Answer #9

he moved off from fla and left his BABY…left for 3 months now he wants to play daddy again

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