my dad is cheating on mom

HI..I really need help and im so confused and stressed because I think my dad is cheating on my mom. And I think I know this becuase…

  1. He is always on the computar and tells me and my brother to go upstairs.
  2. He always uses the computar when my mom is working.
  3. I ried to see for some roof and I found a website called –paltalk.com– was downloaded. and pal talk has video chats and stuff like that 4)Before I was in the room one day he had a video chat going on with some other girl and typing at the same time
  4. He always is looking at girls asses or anything like that.

PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME…I dont want my parents marrige to end or anything causing a huge divorce or arguement. How can I tell my dad to stop cheating on my mom or what should I do please please help me. AND my funmail wont work so I cant reply or send message please JUST HELP ME OUT AND THIS IS MAKING ME CRY… im age from 13-18 and a male please help =(

Answer #1

well the best thing I could tell you is just ask your dad whats going on. because I know how it feels to have your parent devorce. it really sucks and I hate that other people have to go through it to. but when you get a chance just aks your dad why the web site was there. he might get a little mad but I found out if you ever vonfront a parent and they get mad is because you are right andor they are hiding something. and even if he does get mad he will always love you!

Answer #2

you could just wait for the truth to come out, trust me it will!!!

or you could “accidently” bump and to them with your mum

good luck

Answer #3

Well if your mom finds out do you think she will try to work it out with him first? Or will she flat out give him the boot? If she is likely to work things out then do this.

Tell your mom in an easy way: “I don’t know why when dad wants to get on the computer and chat he sends me and my brother upstairs.”

Let them work it out.

Good Luck sweetheart. I’m sorry you are going through such a hard time. You will be fine.
Mama K

Answer #4

I’m actually grateful mine had a divorce, I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I’m not happy that they did, but hey, if it hadn’t of happened I wouldn’t of met a lot of my friends today & such. I still see both of them though. The fact of the matter is, ou need to confront him, & she eventually may need to know. What happeneds happeneds. It may sucj at first yeah. But it would be better for them to split than for your mother to be cheated on, or for them to constantly be argueing & disagreeing, & such like that.

Answer #5

just broke the computer or put virus in.

Answer #6

dude just ok this is what I would do because I know how it feels to have a your parents divorce…hmm just sneak up on him…oh try to go on his computer and c all his messages…uhm probabbly put a vid. camera..HEY you never know ok…and go through his phone..prob. you can b wrong…mayb it can b one of his work friend peeps or something..I don’t know just helping kk…im sry though…but I know how it feels going through all that

Answer #7

well I think you just go to your dad in private and ask him his he cheating on your mom and ask him does he love your mom and like say that you don’t want their marriage to end so can you just like dont cheat if you are and think about his children

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