How to get my boyfriend's Mom to stop hating me?

My boyfriends mother hates my guts! I have been dating him for 1 yr now all has been fine apart from the past 2 months! I have come across this tention in her towards me! I dont understand where its coming from! She acts like a teenage high school b#!ch, b*#ch behind my back to peopl her age and mine. Even to friends of mine who I think she thinks wont tell me what she says! My boyfriend finally has seen what I have been going thru and says give it time it will blow over. I have asked him to talk to her but he says he cant cause she is not the talking type. What do I do?

Even the boyfriends mate / family friend who is in his 40’s is trying to break us up because he does not like me. I was friends with his guy well before I met my boyfriend but since the boyfriends mum has decided to hate me he has to. My boyfriend I feel terrible for I dont want to lose him! But I dont want to split the family up. I have text his mother saying I am not taking him away and will not split the familyy all she does is show these messages to her family and friends and makes a joke of me! All I want is to be happy! I have had the worst run in boyfriend’s but I dont want to go thru another one! What do I do! How can I show her I am not a horrible person nor a family breaker?