How to get my moms boyfriend to stop calling me goth?

Bones You can’t pose as a stereotype. That doesn’t even make sense? It just so happens that what she likes to wear and/or acts generally fits that stereotype so why do you assume that she is posing as one?

Thanks for accepting :)

Thats understandable but must you really say people are sh*t. No one was labeling you, you misunderstood what people were trying to tell you. I apologize.

If it bothers you a lot then maybe you can talk to your mom about it. I’m sure your mom is going to do something about it if its bothering you.

tooo nikki. ummm chances are if you look goth to someone more then likely your whut they call a fake goth aka poser. mmkayyy. just wearing a spikey necklace because of whut reason? none? mmkayy poser right there. have fun with that 1!

Wow! Finally someone who understands! I’ve tried ignoring him, then he’s all like “must be the goth thing.” Ugh! Why me!?!?!?!? Haha, thanksss! :D

That would annoy me too to be honest. My dad asked me if I was goth before just because I was wearing dark nail polish. But I didn’t let it bother me and you shouldn’t let it bother you either. Just ignore him. You know what you are and what you aren’t

Dude, chillax, it’s a song. I came here to find a solution and I get a bunch of other people labeling me.

Making a general statement about everyone. Thats just great your the perfect example of a close minded, arrogant, obnoxious and down right childish teen.

You actually are taking peoples bull, your arguing with him about what he is calling you instead of just moving on and ignoring him. Be realistic here, not everyone is going to know you as lil miss gothic, they’re plenty of people that would rather call you your real name.

I don’t take anyones bull sh*t. Is that a crime? Gosh.

Fine, little miss gothic. You’re pretty terrible at choosing your battles, but suit yourself. If being so irritated at something that means nothing makes you happy, go for it.

No, I’m not letting it go. I wanna be known as Nikki. not “little miss gothic.”

You’re taking this way too seriously. Who cares what people call you? I get called worse things that goth on a fairly regular basis. If labels aren’t important to you, why are they so important to you? Let it go.

I did! He just said this to me. “Nikki, sorry for calling you goth, but you are one.” So childish huh? Ugh!! I told him to stop putting me into the steretypes and labeling me.

Just tell him that your not okay with being called that. He should understand. If he doesn’t quit then make up a nickname for him that he will hate.

Just leave it

You know your not goth and your not a wanna be so just leave and keep on going.

There is going to be bunch of people who are going to judge you, make fun of you e.c.t Does that mean all they say is the truth? No, it does not.

The only reason that I think that is bothering you is because inside you you know you kinda wanna be one or meaby you are one and just pretend for it to not be goth. But goth is a label nothing true. So like mikey said just ignore it and don’t take it so siriusly.

well you should tell him 2 lay the f*ck off of your clothing choice and 2 stop making fun of you cus you wear what you want 2. and that if he dont your gonna tell your mom or something. she will most likely get him 2 leave you alone. if he doesnt stop take matters into your own hands and make him as pissed as you cn get him. make him mad by saying loke “at least what I wear wasnt picked out by my mom” or something like that. I get made fun of all the time for wearing black, dark gray, and dark red and colors like that. or studded belts and bracelets or like your friend had a spiked choker. people always want 2 reassure theirself by making fun of others when its just themselves they put down.

Apology accepted. && Bones, how dare you. It’s my friends! WTF! Are you serious!?!?! Come on now! You don’t know me! That’s how I am, I wore it cause I liked it! He’s my friend! We wear each other’s stuff! Damn. That’s a stereotype for you. If stereotypes didn’t exsist, people would think I just liked the spiked necklace. tisk tisk How am I a poser if I don’t like to get labeled? Hun, you need to get yer facts straight.

No problem. :) I’m sorry too.