My boyfriend fingered me

Im 14 and my boyfriend fingered me yesterday.its not that I didnt like it .and I love him but it felt a little akward afterwards and I feel like he wants to do it agian and I dont mind but can someone give me some advice cause that was my first time

Answer #1

Ignore amorsei. She/he obviously doesn’t understand you are fourteen. Best thing to do is talk to him about it. Find out why he did it. And actually figure out if you are ready with it. Yes it’s going to be a bit awkard at first. It’s something you both havn’t done before. But at any time if you don’t want to do it - you’ve got to tell him. If you are in a serious relationship (which you should be if you’re doing sexual things) then it can’t be that difficult. And if you’re comfortable with it - ask what he would like in return. But take things slow, talk things over and decide yourselves what you want to do.

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