How can I show my parents that they were mean?

My guy thinks my parents have been mean to him in the past, which he is right on that. we have been together for almost 2 years now, and they had an argument in the house. he apologized for yelling in their house, but he wants them to apologize for them being mean to him. they are having a hard time seeing they were not very nice, and I dont know how to make them see it. what should I do?

Answer #1

ohhh nooo.

First of all no “guy” yells at your parents. Thats incredibly disrespectful, you should know that. If he doesnt have enough respect to listen to them and not raise his voice, get rid of him.

You need someone whos going to respect you and your parents.

Answer #2

Tell your parents, but gently. P.s, I hope that you and your guy are still together

Answer #3

REMEMBER THIS. YOUR PARENTS WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR PARENTS. THIS GUY MAY NOT BE AROUND FOREVER. JUST REMEMBER DON’T LET A GUY COME BETWEEN YOU And YOUR PARENTS.

Answer #4

run away

loool I hope you and ure guy are back together

Answer #5

They weren’t mean it is their house their rules. What you consider as mean may just be what they consider good parenting to keep you safe. If your guy has a temper like that then I would be careful around him.

God Bless

Answer #6

heres what you should do.say its for a project.tie up their feet and arms .pull down their pants.hit them with the hardest thing in the house or you can just make them whoop you or cause them hell

Answer #7

your parents suck . your boyfriend is your future not your parents . its logical.

Answer #8

REMEMBER THIS. YOUR PARENTS WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR PARENTS. THIS GUY MAY NOT BE AROUND FOREVER. JUST REMEMBER DON’T LET A GUY COME BETWEEN YOU And YOUR PARENTS.

   I agree.You're being stupid.Why did he even yell at them?You should be annoyed at HIM and not your parents.Its disrespectful,rude and stupid.
Answer #9

just tell them

Answer #10

your going to go against your parents over a temporary boyfriend!? smh, what is wrong with this world!! if I was your brother, the moment he disrespects the parents I will knock out all his teeth. I’ve heard its difficult to talk without your teeth…

Answer #11

trust me if the guy yells at the parents thats just awful. id dump my guy in a heart beat if he raised his voice to my parents even if they were being disrespectful to him first.

Answer #12

dear jacquil03… Set your parents down and give it to them straight. Tell them how you and your guy feel about each other and write down the past arguments and everything you say makes them mean towards your guy. Then get your boyfriend with them and talk it out. Ask them what you and your guy has done to be on a leash 2in. long.Tell them your old enough to date their old enough to trust you and let them know you are responsible and they should know that becuz they raised you.(that always gives you a 2pt.BONUS):) Just let them know you are a big girl in general and you need your freedom and rust too. Good Luck and I hope I was of some help -notinlove66

Answer #13

I am in the same situation as you and my bfriend wants my parents to apoligise to him 2, its hard being in the middle between them and trying to keep the peace, the best thing is to talk to your parents that you love this guy, and see if they will let him come round and discuss the situation, as for your bfiend tell him to stop being so stuben asking for an apolgie tell him to get on with it and forgive and forget

Answer #14

run away

Answer #15

Myabe you all should sit down together and tell them how mean they were to him

Answer #16

You can’t convice them that they were wrong, but you can tell them that what they did was hurtful, and ask if they can apologize for being hurtful. I’m sure it wasn’t their intention to make your boyfriend feel bad, and I’m sure from their point of view they had a reason for doing what they did. However, they can still apologize for making him feel bad because they did not intend to.

Answer #17

tape them doing mean things to you.

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