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my bestfriend cares to much about me...

my bestfriend cares to much about me well me too I care a lot about my bestfriend but I say a guy’s name and he asked me questions like if he is going to kill the guy he is like my dad about boys he has to know the guy and he tell me who the guys I can and cant go out with… but I know why he is like that its because one day my boyfriend (now he is my xboyfriend) yelled at me like hell he saw me crying and my boyfriend not careing about it so my bestfriend tell me a lot of things so I can be happy and now I know he cant see me cry no more but I told he its ok but he said I care to much to see you cry. he calls me a lot in a day and dont say he loves me I know he is in love with a girl I know and I love him but for a friend just a just and I know him for 1 year now and now we are going to a new school he knows the school and people know him and love him I was at the school just for 20min and people talked to him all the school love him so he knows the people and he told me 2 guys I can go out with but im in love but the guy I love I cant love he yelled at me (my x-boyfriend yelled and im in love with) so I cant talk to him or love him what do I do someone please help… I know he love to see me happy but I cant if I cant love a guy…help someone please!!!

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Answer #1

He may not be in love with you, but you have this unhealthy co-dependant relationship with him… At the end of the day you need to be free to fall for whomever you choose without worrying that he is going to freak… He may have a point here (and you may want to think about it), however he cant dictate who you date. Your relationship with him really isnt healthy. He’s not your dad and has no right to act like it… I know you care about him, but you need to draw your boundaries in this relationship…

Answer #2

okay so your in love with your ex boyfriend who you broke up with becuase your friend thought you deserved better (and you do but not the point ) and now hes been very protective becuase he doesn’t want to see you hurt and your still in love with your ex an want to get back to him but afraid that maybe your friend will be mad at you or he wont let you?

Well I dont see why you cant love him you are your own person do w.e. you want if you love your ex and want to go back to him and you think its the right decision then do it. your friend might be mad at first but he will get over it and learn to understand it might at first be really hard for him to understand but give him time and say w.e. you have to. but make sure your making the right choice for you. think it through just becuase your ex may love you and want you back or is sorry doesn’t mean you have to be.

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