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My best friend is dating a psycho

My best friend recently started dating this guy a few months ago and he is a complete psycho, he treats her friends with disrespect, he makes her scared to contact any of her male friends and we can’t even go out without him calling her or smsing her every 5 mins. I’m nearly at the end of my rope trying to persuade her about him but she just never listens and keeps shrugging me off. What can I do to just make her listen? She’s always defending his loser behaviour and saying how he’s changed a lot when he’s still doing the same sh*t he dus to her before. He’s trying to get her to move in with him and if that happens, then shes screwed for life. What can I do?

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Answer #1

This girl has got to realise for herself what he’s like because if she loves him then she’s not gunna want to see anything wrong with him, you have to prove to her that what he’s doing is wrong and then she’ll realise that he isnt what she needs in her life ;)

Answer #2

There’s not much you can do at this moment, girls are going to feel however they want to about someone until they have made their own mind up. Until then, you can just be patient and try to be a good friend, but it’s hard when you know someone is being mentally abused.

Answer #3

Hey! same thing happened with my best friend recently but she ended up losing everything because she moved in with him. I tried EVERYTHING to convience her to leave him, but she didn’t listen. I don’t think she’s going to listen. It might be best just for her to do whatever. Later she’ll realize that he’s no good. Like my friend, her boyfriend is too controlling and I think she’s starting to realize it. She’s not eating and she has to talk to us in secret. Sooner or later she’ll crack and come to her senses. Beee patient.

Answer #4

she has got to realize and experience it for herself but you can be there to catch her and keep a close eye on her esoecially because she is your bff. maybe you can get a portable recorder and record some of the things he says. itll make her open her eyes to the truth just ont tell her before who it is ask for her opinion after and then tell her who it is hope I helped and if you need more help funmail me ~kaitlyn~

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