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What should I do about my mum not letting me see my girlfriend?

So, for those of you that don’t already know I’ve been going out with this girl same age as me, and my mums never really liked her. She used to be a bit controlling and stuff and I’d ask tk her to like bite me and do other stuff to me, although I bruise easily she said no but eventually gave in. A few months back, everyone had been getting the wrong idea about my girlfriend, saying that she never got a bath, she’d beat me up, use and abuse me, make me go a whole day without food by using my dinner money to buy things that she needed. None of what people say about her was true except the fact I werent allowed to see or talk to my friends witgout getting a ‘you fancy him/her’. So, a few months ago, when she came to my house coz we was gunna go to hers for tea, my mum said she has had enough of me being abused anf beaten up, having to go ages with dinner, and said if my girlfriend got help we’d be able to talk. Ever since, I’ve been getting into trouble for talking to my girlfriend, I can see the change in her. One time i went round with her in school and when i got home my mum squeezed my throat and hit me on the side of my head. I want to stay with this girl eveb though my mum says I cant etc… but we love each other, I dont think my mum wants to ‘see’ all the bad things I’ve done to this girl. I just dont know what to do. Any opinions? Thanks

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Answer #1

Shmee, no offence but this relationship wont last. you two will grow up and you two will probably grow apart. However, to give you advice you need you need to explain to your mum that none of it is true and that you have actually asked your gf to hurt you etc and she refused to several times. That bit is important you NEED to say and you shouldn’t have to tell your mother whether you’ve seen your gf, just dont tell her and she wont know. :) maybe you should talk to her parents and ask them to talk to your mother about it

Answer #2

Sounds like Mom may be a very good judge of character and is looking out for your best interests…

Answer #3

Personally I think your mom is right. Not about the girl but about the relationship. Neither of you sound mature enough for a relationship. Sorry.

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