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How do I act around my mom after she just got a boob job?

So my parents lied to me and my brother/family telling everyone my mom was going into surgery to get her shoulder fixed cause she tore it when in reality she got a boob job cause a few weeks back i found papers saying she’d be getting it etc. she got home about an hour ago and my brother was like “awww how r u doing” all caring etc and im silent cause i dont know what to say im kind of disgusted and i dont know what to do??? my dads like go comfort your mom but i know she had a boob job and is lying to me?

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Answer #1

She’s your mom, she’s an adult, and she is allowed to do whatever she wants to her body. Don’t be judgmental and encourage her appearance because she may have a low-self esteem. Just uplift her appearance and maybe she won’t got through any more drastic measures to alter her appearance. Dont make her feel bad about her choice, just make sure she is happy and don’t question her secrecy and motive. A person’s self esteem is a delicate topic and you want to make it a goal to ensure she is happy and focus of your appearance and the appearance of people you are interested in (find cute/hot) because that’s all that really matters :)

Answer #2

Ask her how she’s doing, and then just genuinely ask her why she didn’t tell you the truth. Maybe she was embarrassed or something.

Answer #3

You casually say; “Nice job” mom.. ツ

Answer #4

ok. well she is an adult.and did she get them bigger or smaller? because iv herd of women who get them downsized because it hurts there backs. i see where your coming from but i wouldent really worry about it.and it is kind of a personal thing so i can see why they would not tell you

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