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Is this a good way to stay safe or am I just being a pain?

Since my boyfriend and I got together almost 7 months ago I have always been worried about having sex and becoming pregnant. So I pretty much sustained from sex for the past 4 months from him, last night I finally gave in because I too wanted it. However, I set up some rules, he had to wear a condom and when he was getting ready to C*m he had to pull out of me and do it somewhere else. So do you guys think I am being to much of a pain in the butt or is this a good way to stay safe?

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Answer #1

Staying safe is the most important thing about having sex, although you do want it to be pleasureable and if your so wrapped up in “do this dont do that make sure you” its not going to be any fun. I think your doing everything right

Answer #2

If you tell any guy that he is not going to be able to have sex with you no matter what if he is not wearing a condom, trust me, he’s going to put on a condom. They’ll do anything for sex. And dont fall for that “I love you, dont you trust me?” cr@p… lol Make sure whoever you are with that you use a condom everytime

Answer #3

You’re just being responsible - which is something every sexually active teen should be doing.

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