My boyfriend want to know what is a good way for your to get pleasure without having sex or mastrbating with your hands?
Good question; pleasure won't happen but arousal will.
Usually the sensitive spots that a girl has can also be taken to use in a guy. They can work the individual up to the point of needed pleasure but pleasure itself won't happen or it will happen at a minimal state.
Take for example a guys nipples, these don't just hang around all day. They contain the same amount of sensitivity as a girls nipples. He can try fondling with those. Its a good idea to focus on it the first time though. Since he is looking for new spots he can try experimenting with his whole body. Not just the obvious spots like the genitals. These newly founded spots can have a very dramatic effect when it comes to things like intercourse. Making the whole act a whole lot more enjoyable then it already is.
Hope this helps.
