How can we tell my parents about our relationship?

So here’s the deal, I’m 15 and I’m going out with a 17 year old…and we have been going for just over a month now…his parents know about us but mine don’t…How do I tell them..or should I? I need help fast…also keep in mind my parents are protective, especially my dad!! (he’s a cop)!

Answer #1

If you were a mom with a 15 year old daughter, would you want to know ?….would you have a right to know ?….would you want to look after her best interests ?

Answer #2

First, at 15, I can understand why you are interested in a 17-year-old guy. You are more mature than the 15year old guys. They will catch up to you in a few years. In the mean time you are attractive to an older guy and you find that flattering and a turn on that he could be interested in you. That is all well and good. The rub, as you well realize, is your parents’ acceptance, right? Try talking with the B/F first and ask him if he is willing to drop way back on the intensity of the relationship. Then see if you can go out with a group of friends that would include him. Perhaps doing social stuff like skating, skiing, maybe even hanging at the mall. If your folks are cool with that, then after a few such outings you could tell them that you have feelings for one of the group and ask if they would like to meet him. Just drop back from being with him alone and you could pull it off. If I was your dad, I’d appreciate getting to meet him and being in on the decisions. At least let him think that he is, He He Good Luck Gino

Answer #3

it would help if you told them. try getting them to know him first, and if that doesnt work, tell them that you could always find a worse guy then him to date, ie a gangster or emo kid (whatever they despise more)

Answer #4

Greetings fellow user, You may be having this problem for the folowing reasons, also I hope you enjoy my help, and rate my advice, Thank you very much, and enjoy the help below! -Well, first of all escortagino made an excellenta point lol. You should try to practice abstinince for a while, and just eitehr find a bf your age or just not have one at all. This is very common. -Hope my advice help you, Don’t forget to rate =)

     -Phil2611
Answer #5

well if he’s a good guy tell them who knows maybe they won’t freak. They might want to meet him. after all my dad is the same way. some times it’s to hard to deal with them ya know? on the other hand if he’s a bad boy DONT TELL THEM!!!! if you really like this guy listen to your heart NOT what your parents shove into your head.

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