Marry someone just because they're the father of your child?

dont get marry just becaues you have a baby togeth it could end up being a real bad thing and you dont want show your son that you should in love and much more to get marry good luck

hope you fine somone you love and loves you

Nobody should marry someone just because there is a child involved, it has to be so much more then that. You don’t need to explain to people why, its none of their business.

No I don’t believe in marrying someone just because you both have a child together. Things change so why should one moment in your life define everything else? I told my wife the same thing like a year before I married her(after we had our son that year before).

For surely not. because you made a baby with somebody I would deffinetly not marry him just because he is the father of my son or daughter. I wouldnt marry somone and live unhappy the rest of my life. when there are so many fish in the sea that would be able to treat me right understand I have a child and love me for me. so id say no who ever said that to you is very wrong. and should get hit in the face. because they are not where your at and living your life.!!!

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I was NOT saying I was at all CONSIDERING marrying him!! I have an AMAZING boyfriend who has been there for me ever since I got pregnant && was literally the ONLY one there for me throughout my whole entire pregnancy && stood by my side @ my c-section && he makes for an amaznig dad for Dillon (= && I know no matter what he will ALWAYS be there for my little boy. :) && to bethx about marrying at 17 - that was my point when I said that “I’m 17 years old for one” Although I will be 18 soon, but not considering marriage until I’m done with college.

No dont marey him. Youre son desvers beter @ you would be misibrele

lol absolutely not. marry the one you love, not the person you feel you’re obligated to marry.

I didn’t marry my daughters father and now 24 years later people still shame me. Every new job, most situations in life, women(housewives mostly)who define themselves by their role (to be in everyones business)always ask, were you married, wheres the babies father, and then they want to know if your parents are still together. They frame your life as a disaster, and when it happens enough you believe it and act on it. Then your kid has to explain this to people too. If you marry him even for a year or two all is forgiven, no questions asked, dignity in tact, and gifts. Otherwise you get to be a slut, because they were and now their sex life is not sacred, it pays their bills. I thought I would eventually marry, and that would put a fence around me, but it didn’t happen. People are cruel lie, or get married, or they ask why are you so quiet if you try to avoid the personal questions from the inferior feeling vultures trained to pick at wounds healed over.