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Is it wrong to have kids before you're married?

Im 24 and have 3 kids. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 5 years (he is the father to the 2 youngest ones) is it wrong for having kids before your married?

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Answer #1

Not. Only that is wrong if you are a bad mother. If you are a good mother then NOTHING is wrong.

Answer #2

Okay I wouldnt say its wrong nor would I say its not the wisest choice, You are blessed to have these children in your life…would you be more blessed to have been married before hand. No!

Answer #3

Isnt it a little late to be asking this question?

I personally dont think it is wrong… I think it is better in general because people who are married tend to be in a more secure relationship, but that isnt always true for every relationship…

Answer #4

I think you guys should be commited to each other befor you go and have children because that BIG!

Answer #5

I don’t see anything wrong with having kids before your married. I know a lot of people who have done that.

Answer #6

I wouldn’t say its wrong, no. Its not like you can change that, might as well embrace it unless you want to regret your kids - which would be horrible.

Answer #7

well it’s not wrong by any means, but it’s definitely not the wisest choice..

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