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What should I do without hurting either guys?

I just broke up with my first boyfriend like two weeks ago and I dont think he is over me yet. now theres this other guy that likes me and I think im startin to like him too. we are both in the drumline. but im dont want to crush my last boyfriend because he is in the band to. what SHOULD I DO I dont want to hurt either of them

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Answer #1

I think you should talk with your ex about it before going out with the new guy, and by talking I don’t mean asking permission. Tell him the truth, you like this new guy and you just wanted to make sure he was alright with it and not hear it somewhere else other than you. I’ve tried that, my ex and one of my friends, another friend of mine told me and damn I got mad.

Just make sure that he knows before anybody else, I don’t know if you’re still friends, it sounds like that, so tell him you’ll be there if he wants to talk about it or stuff. It’s your life, true, but there’s no reason to grid salt in the wound by not giving a damn…

Answer #2

give your ex some good bye sex and tell him to back the Fukk off , ha and well if you feel for the new guy , go for it … but if you dont want your ex to go pyscho on you and probably kill the new guy then talk with him 1st , that would work for me, but the thing for me is , not girly brings me down ;)

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