How to choose without hurting someone?

Okay, well I went out with this guy since 7th grade on and off.. literally on and off for two years. but we decided to stop talking but starting talking again as we say we never got over eachother and we can’t still. but also recently I started talking to a guy a year older than me and we’ve been talking a lot and he told me he likes me. my ex-boyfriend would just ignore me if he found out I was talking to this other guy but he knows I talk to him and he seems to want to hangout and talk to me more.. I don’t know if its jealousy or what. I have feelings for both and I don’t know how to choose without hurting one of them.

Answer #1

Well if you choose one it’s going to hurt the other but it seems to me if you and your old boyfriend can’t comfirm being together or not you should go with the new guy cause apparently he has decided what he wants and is sticking to it.

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Get Over a Breakup

Relationships, Self-help, Personal development

Advisor

Online Love Problem Solution ...

Astrology Services, Relationship Counseling, Online Services

Advisor

Findabrides

Mail Order Bride Services, Online Dating, Relationships

Advisor

Annette Comer

Women's Leadership, Business Coaching, Personal Development

Advisor

mSpyLite

Spyware, Relationships, Technology