Lying parents

If you tell your child that the food pyramid recommends 5 servings of fruits AND 5 servings of vegetables a day, what would be a suitable punishment for the said parent?

a] Follow her own recommendation and be a good example

b] Go forthwith to the confessional and thence to hell

c] Deal with the additional diapers without complaint

d] other = suggestions please?

Answer #1

Dear mcmaddy, First of all it states…I do believe without checking 7 of each? So the parent would be offering a better solution to the chart since I myself found it hard to eat 7 and even harder to have a child eat 7. A punishment for what? We cannot allow children to blur their boundaries; they are not the parent and must never be allowed to believe they have that control. If a parent makes a request of the child to eat 5 of each daily she can offer an explanation as to why. If she chooses not to eat this way herself it does show a bad example to the child who in no time will call her on it…but this child should never be allowed to allocate a punishment??? I told my child to go to bed at 9 that doesn’t mean I went to bed at 9. Children see that there can be different sets of rules for them, their parents and their younger siblings. So teaching them to cope with the rules may be the best role modelling a parent can do…sorry, I do regress. The point…do not allow the child to get confused on their boundries…this will be a much worse consequences then not eating all their fruits and vegetables. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

I think the best punishment for said parent would be for them to admit to their children that they are, in actual fact, wrong.

Yes, we’re all familiar with the food pyramid, and most of us remember the “eat most, eat some, eat a little” diagram. However, after years of this food pyramid being drummed into our brains, nutritionists actually revisited it, and redrafted it to be slightly more accurate.The new pyramid has us eating plant oils (ie: canola, sunflower, olive, soy, corn, and peanut oils) at most meals, whereas the old pyramid had us eating them only “sparingly”. We have also learned that we should eat lean red meat sparingly, and while wholegrains are encouraged at every meal, foods such as white bread, pasta, potatoes and white rice are in the “use sparingly” category with the sweets.

So what does this new food pyramid have to say about fruit and veges? It recommends we eat 2-3 servings of fruit, and “vegetables in abundance”- so pretty much, it’s open season on the veges front. With serving sizes, it varies to do with age and size. I have always been taught that a serving is what fits into a cupped hand, so a stick of celery, a mandarin orange, a kiwifruit… whatever. Another way to get these servings into kids is to offer them dried alternatives, such as a box of raisins or a couple of dried apricots with a glass of water.

Yes, it’s important to let children know the importance of eating fruit and vegetables, and as much as we should encourage them to eat as many servings of them as possible (ie, substituting an apple in place of a piece of cake), we shouldn’t dictate exactly how much of them they should eat. It’s there as a guideline more than a set rule.

A copy of the revised food pyramid can be viewed here: http://www.wiman.us/new-pyramid393.jpg

Answer #3

that’s odd, I did GCSE food technology and the pyramid is not what we learnt. similar, but not the same. maybe it varies on the country/goverments.

this is what I learnt we should have per day…I’m in england:

5 fruit OR veg’ per day. 4 carb’s…such as bread, cereals, nuts. 3 diary…such as milk, cheese. 2 proteins…such as meat, eggs, fish. 1 fats, sugars, sweets.

although since then 3 wholegrains and 2 oily fish a day have been added to that list.

Answer #4

oh please, parents are required to lie to their kids also, what kid on earth is going to take the “food pyramid recommendation” seriously? you’re the parent!

BECAUSE I SAID SO! should be good enough for your kid!

stop fretting so much, kids sense insecurities!

your word is law, whether you follow your word or not! (do what I say not what I do)

you have their best interests at heart! whether they like it or not!

stop second guessing yourself!

Answer #5

Just checked it…fruits 2-4 veggies 3-5 So mom was just about right on. Sue…good luck

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