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okay I need help here I wont too have sex with my boyfriend and he does too but then I wanna have a baby but im only 13 so what do I do

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Answer #1

Let’s remember it takes two to make a baby, and the same two to be responsible for that baby. Do you look forward to dating, dances, partying with friends…all the things teens like to do ? Have a baby and all that is gone. plus you now have the father of the baby that has 50% say in what you do with that baby, wether you stay together or not. Right now your life is your own. You do pretty much what you enjoy doing. With a baby you no longer own your life. That baby comes first before you. It needs care 24/7.

It ok to be curious about sex, and to explore some of the pleasures that it includes, but parenthood should be reserved for adults. Explore and experiment with touching and other pleasures, but stop being in such a hurry to become an adult.

Answer #2

Oh my god, girl you need a chastity belt or something, lol.

Seriously though - don’t. No 13-year-old is mature enough to handle the consequences of sex let alone able to properly raise a child, that’s crazy talk.

Educate yourself about sex my dear and think about your future. Don’t bring a baby in this world, there are already enough that don’t have proper parenting, please don’t add another.

Answer #3

if your only 13 wait because I got pregnant at 12 and had my baby at 13 and I lost my baby because my body wasnt fully developed so I advise you 2 wait your not ready no matter how much you think you are..

Answer #4

First, have a thorough knowledge about sex. Then indulge in safe sex. Then, when you grow up (say 18+), you can plan for a baby. And ensure that the baby has got a good and responsible dad to raise it up. Don’t ever think yourself as a baby-producing machine that delivers as and when wished.

Answer #5

I was 14, 5 days before my 15th birthday when I lost my virginity. it was a bad idea. I wwish I woul dhave waited. and my best friend is pregnant with her first baby and she is only 15. she wanted it but now that she is 8 months along in the pregnancy she wishes she wouldnt have got pregnant so early.

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