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Losing virginity

My g/f and I just had sex for the first time, but after we finished, she started to regret, I fell so guilty to just because she felt very bad, point is that she asked if that is it possible that she may still be a virgin? I mean she did not bleed, my penis is not that big, and it was not a straight shot penatration, It was by section not because she was dificult to peneatrate is just thatshe did wanted me to go deeper because she did not wanted to lose her virginity, then after a while she pulleme towards her just to penetrate the 1/2 inch that was left to go in, I do not know, I just want to give her good news that she may still be avirging, I feel so bad, casn anyone please help me out?

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Answer #1

I wont say if she is or is not because honestly no one really knows what a girls virginity really is, but read this hope it would help the two of you come to yr own conclusion.

Hymen & virginity

Q. What is Hymen? A. The hymen is a thin, fleshy membrane that in some girls and young women is found at the opening to the vagina. It has a central perforation, which can be round or elongated, through which menstrual blood will flow. It is also called “maidenhead”.

Q. Is hymen an evidence of virginity? A. For a long time, it was believed that an intact hymen was evidence of a girl’s virginity, as the hymen posed a barrier to sexual intercourse.

Some girls who are still virgins have no hymen at all. Also there have been some cases in which girls who have had several sexual intercources had an intact Hymen. This condition is also called as elastic hymen. A minor surgical procedure should remove the hymen is such cases as elastic hymens sometimes do cause pain during sexual intercourse.

Girls who do have a hymen can break their hymen in a number of differerent ways, many times without even knowing it.

Some of the non-sexual ways in which a hymen will tear are:

  1. Through an accident or injury.
  2. Horseback riding, bicycling, high jumping, gymnastics or similar sports.
  3. Insertion of finger or instrument by doctor during pelvic exam.
  4. Tampon insertion. etc..

While the presence of a hymen indicates virginity, the absence of one is definately not a proof a girl is not a virgin.

Since an intact hymen can be stretched and split by an erect penis during sexual intercourse, a woman may feel momentary discomfort and may bleed. Should either persist, a doctor should be consulted. On the other hand, there may be no blood or pain involved at all when the hymen is torn.

Answer #2

LOOK, IF SHE DOESNT WANT TO LOST HER VIRGINITY SHE MUSNT HAVE SEX…OBIOUSLY SHE DOESNT KNOW WHEN YOU LOST YOUR VIRGINITY ( IN A WOMAN ) IT HURTS A LITTLE BIT, I GUESS PEOPLE SAY THAT IM STILL VIRGIN AND ALL GIRLS SAYS YOU BLEED ONLY WHEN THE PEN*S IS SO BIG BUT IF SHE DOESNT LOSE HER VIRGINITY ITS OBIOUSLY SHE CANT HAVE SEX…SHE IS A LITTLE BIT SICK!!!

Answer #3

Ell: No she is not still a virgin. I’m sorry. Tell her it’s ok though, and that just because you did it once that doesn’t mean that you have to do it again. You can still choose to be abstinent. Tell her that you will still love her even if she doesn’t want to have sex with you. But if you penetrate a girl with your penis and she has consented to do this then she is no longer a virgin. Her hymen (cherry to be vulgar) is a thin layer of skin in the opening of the vagina. In order for something to enter it must either rip or stretch. It is most likely though, that it was already ripped or stretched. If she uses tampons, or if she has fingered herself, or been fingered, then it is likely that it was already broken. Bleeding is no longer an accurate way to tell if a girl is a virgin. If you or her want to talk to me you can funmail me, I’d be very glad to talk to her about it and try to comfort her. When you lose your virginity, it is helpful to talk to another girl who is older and isn’t involved in teenage girl stuff as much.

Answer #4

I think you guys should’ve talked through this more,whether or not she lost her hymen you guys had sex so she isn’t a virgin any more hope that helped&I hope for the best for you two maybe if you try talking it out it’ll be better.

Answer #5

I think you guys should’ve talked through this more,whether or not she lost her hymen you guys had sex so she isn’t a virgin any more hope that helped&I hope for the best for you two maybe if you try talking it out it’ll be better.

Answer #6

I think you guys should’ve talked through this more,whether or not she lost her hymen you guys had sex so she isn’t a virgin any more hope that helped&I hope for the best for you two maybe if you try talking it out it’ll be better.

Answer #7

ok- you two had sex- so no she’s not a virgin- it states in the bible that even if you look at someone the wrong way than you have committed adultry…basically oral anal or actual sex- feeling up etc. sorry she’s not a virgin. Except for being a virgin is a commitment that you make to yourself- or some to GOD- if she feels bad than yeah she cant take away the act that happened but she can vow AGAIN not tohave sex until marriage- good luck!

god bless

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