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losing him.

im soo scared im gonna lose my boyfriend ; like hes gonna dump me ): when were on the phone he always tells me he loves me and he gets sad when I get irritated and I really like him and we were best friends before we were dating and we have only been dating for 5 days aand we have talked on the phone every single day since then . but I dont really know should I just leave him alone or should I dump him because hes been showing me that he might like my best friend but I think hes just goofin around.

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Answer #1

you two need to spend less time together. spend way less time on the phone. there is no way to end a relationship faster than to become too close. remember, you both need your other lives-friends, etc. whatever you do, do NOT act clingy or possessive. keep your conversations like they were when you were best friends-you still are each other’s best friend, just now the relationship has deepened. And WHATEVER you do, do not let him think you like him more than he likes you. that puts him in control of the realtionship, and of you. I know you like him and dont think hell hurt you, but if he thinks you are obsessed with him, he will flirt with other girls, etc. be careful-slow things down. and if you both like each other it will work out.

Answer #2

I don’t know I think he likes your best friend try and make her jelious but make sure be4 you do any thing

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