Should I ask him out if it's a lose-lose situation?

I am in love with a guy and he likes me back (I know because…well…I don’t really know…but I think he does) but I just moved and now we live 2 hours apart. I call him all the time but it’s just not the same you know?! I really miss him! my friends keep telling me to either ask him out (but he has a girlfriend…but they don’t like each other…go figure right!) or get over him but I can’t do either one. For one what if he says no. I mean that would crush me, and for two what if he says yes and it doesn’t work out? That would be even worse because he’s my best friend’s ex! So I would be losing a friend too! What do I do?! PLZ HELP!!!

Answer #1

Bottom line…………he has a gf! you cant ask out a guy who is already with someone else so he mustn like you that much if he is with someone else, and he prob will say no if you do becos what would he be getting? a long distance relationship…he has already become distant from you since you moved, so the only right option here is to move on from him for now atleast.

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