Long distant relationship...

I have been dating that same guy for almost 6 years and he has been my only boyfriend. He travels a lot for his job for sometime months at a time. It has really been bothering me lately. I am on a rec league and I have been hanging out with my team a lot lately since my boyfriend has been gone. I am afraid that I am beginning to have feelings for someone who is on my team… I am very confused because I do not want to ruin my relationship with my boyfriend over this. When he comes home we were orignally planning on looking for houses and possibly engagment! I am just very confused right now. I just sometimes wonder what it would be like to date someone else…

Answer #1

Being away from each other is hard. If you have a wandering eye you should maybe take a break from your boyfriend to see if after 6 years he is the one for you, if you are having doubts. If it is just curiousity I would say ignore it. Do what’s in your heart.

Answer #2

well if yer thinking on a possible engagement, then yu obviously love him a lot. and yu must have already put up with his traveling fer a long time [6 years is a longg time!] I personally think yu should stay with him, because yu guys have been with each other fer a long time. but if it gets to a point where yu barely ever see him and yu truly do have feelings fer that someone on yer team, then tell yer boyfriend earlier.

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