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My boyfriend and I decided to move in together 3 months ago. we found a great condo, that we could only aford together, had the talk about comittment etc.. (I have a 6yr old daughter). I thought everything was going great until a month after moving in, he said he wasn’t “happy” and wanted to move out! my daughter will be crushed! I don’t want to move! I like the apt and don’t feel that I should have to move because he isn’t happy! I think he needs to grow up, and not make comittments that he can’t/won’t keep. it’s bad enough that he has displaced my daughter who now has to share a room with me! what do you think? Amd I being unreasonable?

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im not trying to offend you at all but what your saying sounds kind of selfish. ask why your boyfriend is feeling this, maybe hes not ready to live with you yet. im sure he wanted to be committed but he doesn’t feel right. be sure that communication is very open in your relationship. you shouldn’t be getting upset about it because you should understand hes having a problem and want to help him. even though your happy, your in a relationship together so you have to make sure you do what makes both of you happy. hope I helped!

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