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I am a bigger woman but I have not always been bigger. My weight fluctuates frequently. I have noticed (from watching porn) that my vagina is abnormally large even when I have lost weight. I know that some women who are porn stars actually get a vagina lip reduction (forget the technical name for the procedure). However, I am not able to do this nor do I want to do this. My vagina is what someone would call a “fat” vagina. My boyfriend of 8 years claims he loves it. He says that having sex with a skinnier woman with a “skinny” vagina is like having sex with a piece of wood. Is he telling me the truth about my “fat” vagina? Do men like bigger vaginas? What is the deal here? Should I be embarrassed of my large vagina? Also, I have heard comments made about bigger vaginas (bigger lips, etc.) being looser. This is not true !!! Why would someone make such an assumption? I have been with 6 people in the last 9 years (since I lost my virginity). Is this a lot? I do not think my pussy is loose?!

Answer #1

why do women do this all the time. Men will love your vaginas, don’t car how they look they are not a painting that we hang in our living rooms for all to look at and judge. look us guys are just happy that you women even allow us to touch you at all, let alone give us access to your vagina. dont think of porn as the average, its really more like un-normal look. I mean most guys dont have 9inch cocks and most women dont have 48DD breasts at 20. jackie1969 has the right thinking, each women is different so your normal, I have only heard of a few case where a women’s lips (labia minora) being to long that is caused pain during sex, which needed surgery to correct. so your fine. the only thing you have to worry about if anything is the smell, even then most guys don’t care.

Answer #2

yeah I’ve always been told guys love fat vaginas.. its true it saves them from hitting your pelvis bone.. its like a pillow =]] // and im sure you dont get bad bruises.. one of my skinny friends, she gets bad brusies.. lucky lucky.. the porn stars just have to look like that bc I don’t know its hott?

Answer #3

It’s best not to compare yourself to porn stars, they don’t get those jobs for being normal

If your boyfriend likes it then don’t complain And if you didn’t mind until you watched porn then you shouldn’t watch porn Porn makes a lot of people unsecure about themselves and their looks

Answer #4

I have a long vagina, vaginas come different size looks, I won’t worry about the size. your man will love it for what it looks like

Answer #5

Is he telling me the truth about my fat vagina? Honey, he’s been with you for 8 years! I think you’d have notice if he didn’t LOVE your vagina and if he was a big fat liar.

Do men like bigger vaginas? From my experience, big, small, long, strechy, thin, fat, men LOVE vaginas. In other words, men are always happy no matter the vagina.

What is the deal here? The deal here is that every vagina is different and if you ask an experienced man he’ll say that every vagina he’s seen is different. Obviously, someone or something made you think you weren’t normal (by the way porn is NOT a reference to normal sexual genitalia that’s like believing that everyone should look like Kate Moss) but the truth of the matter is you are very normal. Thick lips, uneven lips, big holes, small holes, hairy, less hairy, etc all normal.

Should I be embarrassed of my large vagina? No.

Why would someone make such an assumption? Because they are inexperienced, ignorant and don’t know what the hell they are talking about.

Is this a lot? This a very subjective question meaning some people would say “No” and other would say “Yes” depending on their beliefs. So the question is for you to answer and figure out.

I do not think my pussy is loose?! Wow, you’ve already answered your own question! See, you don’t need us :-)

Answer #6

He is most likely telling the truth. Not that I’ve been with a vast number of women, but I have found womens’ private parts to be as unique as their faces and personalities. I happen to prefer a woman to be as large and loose as possible. That’s just me. I had a girlfriend many years ago with enormous protruding labia. The first time that I went down on her, I ejaculated all over both of us!

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