What are your thoughts on this possible relationship?

Aight check it out. theres a girl at my work that seams hella cool. we talk a lot during work and seem to get along really good. One night I swapped shifts and got off before she did. She told me she was going to check out a movie with a guy but when the guy found out what time she got off he pretty much ditched her. So I offered to take her out and we went to a movie and after she mentioned we should hang out again.

She had a senior project bake sale she had to do a couple days later so I bought her some food and stopped by. I hung out wit her for about an hour then bounced to work. This last weekend I took her to my prom…and it was on a ship and the dance floor level smelled and felt like a football locker room. So most of it we chilled on the top floors and talked for an hour. She mentioned she never really had a long relationship and stuff like that and its been a while but also she never really went out wit a good guy. She hung out with another co worker the night before prom but when we were talking on the boat and she said that ‘’she went to just hang out and party and I don’t want him to think I like him’’.

So pretty much I’m asking if she is interested in me and if I should keep hanging out with her, or if I shouldn’t waste my time?

And if I was going to how could I find out if she is interested in me?

(I know ill probably just end up being a man and asking her face to face but I wanted a discrete way to find out)

Any inputs good

Thanks

.Chris

Answer #1

Well if I was the girl I would want u to move in and kiss me…

If she kisses u back then u know, but if not.. then there u go….

but more likely I hate to say… even if yawl started dating it won’t last… she said she always dates bad boys never good huh?… then the night before the prom she went to a party with another guy from ur job, huh?

Seems to me like the girl is playing the field but being nice and covering her butt about the party so that way if /when u find out … she would have already told u.

Girls who date bad boy get bored with good boys… trust me… better yet you’ll fnd out for your self… especially if she drinks and u don’t…ur boring to her..

Sorry!! Don’t worry plenty fish out in the sea!

Answer #2

Do not make problem from this. Ask her out so frequently that seems to be enough for such a girl. Make a system from this invitations. If you see that she accepts the system, and do not disappear with other males, you may feel that your relationship is okay. If she brakes your regular invitations, and you see that she wants to hang around with other boys too, then regard her as an occasional g/f. That is also good.

Answer #3

She seems to be into you hints are that she’s telling you she’s never had a really good man which means she probably thinks highly of you. A girl would never say that if she didn’t think of you as a great guy. she’s not a waste of time at all she seems to like you but don’t go to fast or you will scare her. It’s really sweet of you to hang out with her like that and she probably thinks so too. Good luck I hope this helps.

Answer #4

umm i dont know.. sorry .. us girls are weird

Answer #5

anyone else got any ideas?

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