Judge mental!!

How come people are so judge mental about looks? Like just cause I have slot of piercings and dress skanky, they think I’m all sad and cut my wrists.. NOT! I have absolutley NOTHING against emos. But they don’t even know me! I am actually a very colorful happy person! It makes me so so mad! I know we are like that a little bit naturally, but why are people making it so extreme??

Answer #1

bones..blood and skin << makes us all equal .. take no notice if people judge ,, they dont give you a chance they pre-judge but truthfully would the ones judging you be really somebody you would speak to and click well with?

Answer #2

If all people know about you is your looks, then they will judge you according to their notion of what those looks signify. to avoid that either Ignore their opinions, change your looks, or get to know them. (Maybe you might find out that YOU are judging THEM unfairly?) Communication is the first step in understanding. Good Luck!!

Answer #3

because they cant do anything better than that.. but don’t just take it seriously and don’t mind them

Answer #4

Well, every color, and every fashion makes a statement. White makes you seem pure and honest. Black makes you looks slimer, but more dark and forboding or formal or scary, yellow makes you seem cheerful, red makes you look powerful or bold, and so on. Of course a frilly dress makes you look feminine or romantic, a short short skirt makes you look like you’re for sale-cheap, a bunch of tatoos and piercings make you look confused or mentally ill…or like you are too scared to conform to wearing suits and getting a job… Why not study fashion…and color, and think carefully about what you wear, and what it “says” to people. You might be puting out the wrong vibes… and getting reactions that really don’t fit the real you. You might be a lot nicer, and braver, and more together, and capeable…than your fashion implys. Why not change your look daily, with your mood? If you wear a completely different look…you FEEL different ! And people treat you different. Dress like a nurse, and act helpful, and people will trust you and turn to you for help… Dress in a suit and look professional, and people will believe what you say more often. If you look FABULOUS, you’ll feel fabulous..and people will want to talk to you.

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