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It's been bugging me...
It’s realy hard to talk about this but in April 08 my Aunt’s foster son tried to rape me. He was 16 I was 14. He’s now 17 (or 18 I’m not sure now) and I’m 16. So anyway I went over to my aunt’s house and my cousin was playing her game and I went to go sit on the couch behind her and the foster kid. He was playing the game as well. And then after a few minutes of talking my cousin gets up and goes somewhere. I don’t remember right now, but when she was out of sight he came over and sat next to me on the couch and looked at me wierd. I asked him what and he didn’t say anything. I felt realy awkward. Then the got close to me and held me down and started kissing me. I struggled but he’s way stronger than me. anyyway, he got my shirt up and my pants down. He started touching me in those places and I kept saying no but he wouldn’t stop. He started unbuttoning his pants when I screamed and he paniced. I put my clothes back to where they were originally and stayed in the same spot. I was practically frozen in fear just staring at him until my cousin came back. When she finally did come back I said I had to go and I left. I was too scared to tell her since he was right there. I went home and stayed in my room and the next morning I just put it to the back of my mind trying to forget about it. The whole summer I was with my Aunt a lot and I saw him a lot. I acted as if nothing happened around my aunt although it was hard. Then at the beginning of this years school year in August we read a book in my English class called Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson. It triggered all of those memories back and I tried pushing it to the back of my head like I did before but it didn’t work. I just don’t know how to deal with this. I’ve told my best friend whom the same thing happened to her but it actually happened all the way. I also told my cousin but she didn’t believe me. I’ve been thinking about therapy and I finally went to to my church counselors to talk about it. I didn’t exactly tell them what happened because I didn’t want them to tell the police. It helped alittle but I’ve been dealing with this all year and It’s May already. I just can’t keep living like this.
Then wouldn’t that mean I should wait for him to turn 18?
See I’ve thought about that as well but I know that If I tell my mom or my aunt they’ll want to press charges. And since it was over a year ago and I don’t have any evidence I could be charged for accusing him.
yu need to tell someone in yur family who can do something about it. tell yur mom…even yur aunt. it’s the best thing. whats the worse that can happen?
Thank you hello23hello. I almost was in tears from your reply! Thank you. Your reply was so touching. <3
I know it hard too but tell someone beacause if hes under 18 he’ll be charged as a minor and get out at 18 and his record will be cleared when he turns 18
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