What would you do if your ex is kind of bugging you?

(This is going to be long. Sorry in advance.)

It is to the point where I am pd off about it. And if you know me at all, I don’t usually get pd off easily. It’s hard for me to tell him to stop bugging me because:

1. I don’t say things like that.
2. I’m in-like with his best friend.

Okay, so I’ll start. My ex has been calling every night like he used to when we were dating. This has gone on for too long now. It’s been a month since we broke up. He’s in-love with me, but I don’t return his feelings. I don’t want to hurt him at all. I’ve been really stupid in the past. I’ve broken up with him and then gone back with him out of pressure. (I know, it’s the worst thing to do.) I want to move on because it was getting us nowhere. But how can I, when he’s calling me every night and wants to meet up with me every chance he gets? Another stupid thing I’ve done is, lately during some of those phone calls, we’ve had phone *. I don’t know what the hell I was thinking, I know I’m just kind of leading him on to me more.

Another problem is, I’m in-like with his best friend. I hate using the word love. I just don’t know what love really means yet. Anyways, I like his best friend, but that guy likes this really beautiful girl, but that girl likes this other guy. This could go on and on. Thing is, I’ve already tried to stop myself from liking him at all.

I have thought that maybe my life would be far more easier without men in it.