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It hurts SO bad. Loosening up tips?

Me and my boyfriend tried to have sex last night, but it hurt me too much and I had to tell him to stop ( after only going in twice ). Is there any way to loosen myself up, so that it won’t hurt as bad next time? He didn’t finger my pussy or touch my clit at all, is that why?

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Answer #1

Don’t do that. You could have a Urinary tract infection if you are currently sexually active. If it was your first time, it was probably your “cherry” otherwise known as a hymen. If you try again it shouldn’t feel so bad. Foreplay may be another factor, make sure you are turned on fully as well so he will fit better and there is less friction. This is a common problem because most men just want to get down to business and think they can just turn you on during intercourse and that is total bullshit. But if this was not your first time look up urinary tract infection on WebMD.com and if the symptoms sound familiar then go see a doctor immediately. They will give you antibodics and pain killers. If you don’t get it taken care of it the infection will spread to your bladder and to other vital organs in a short amount of time, about a week( I know this firsthand). Hopefully your issue isn’t that dire though. but sticking a large object up your vagina is NOT the answer. It probably hurts for a reason and its your body saying “Get that out asap!” lol

Answer #2

try fingering and inserting large object up you vagina to try and loosen it, do this before sex

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