How bad will the first time hurt?

Im 16 and im a girl. I really really like my boyfriend. I havent really been brave enough to experiment new things. im tired of being called prude but I dont want to feel uncomfortable. im not scared about giving head and hand jobs..what im nervous is what he does to me, lke fingering and sex.

im really really not good with pain..well that kind. I am an athlete and im tough but im still nervous about this stuff. my boyfriend likes doing sexual stuff but he says he wont pressure me. but I want him to enjoy things.

the main question here is does it hurt to be fingered? AND how bad will it hurt my first time having sex?

Answer #1

you’re 16 years old ! dont worry about boyfriends && all that junk.. I know…I sud take my own advice… &&& dont do sumthing your not ready for ! TRUST ME..u’ll regret it later…

Answer #2

it doesnt always hurt the 1st time you have sex, it never hurt me when I first had sex but then agen my friend bled when she had sex for the 1st time everbody is different!

Answer #3

It’s normal if you bleed, it just means your hymen hasn’t broken all the way. He shouldn’t say anything and if he does just explain it.

Answer #4

DON’T JUMP INTO SEX BECAUSE PEOPLE CALL YOU PRUDE OR BECAUSE IT IS WHAT YOUR BOYFRIEND WANTS! REALLY THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT! AND THE RISKS YOU WILL BE TAKING IF YOU DECIDE TO HAVE SEX.

Answer #5

if I could remember…have you ever cut your self real bad while shaving your vagina? well imagine that pain at least by 5 to 10 times more, and its like putting 3 fingers in your belly button if you think that hurts imagine your vagina. oh and if he” not rushing you then why are you tired of being called a prude? is he calling you that? because that sounds like rushing to me. if your not ready your not ready. if he cheats on you because your not ready that jus means he doesnt respect you or think of you and its jus not meant to be.

Answer #6

if you bleed like how does the guy react to that

Answer #7

well thats how it hurt me then again his penis was about 9inches and was a lil bent. and that was back in 96,

Answer #8

First if you feel you are ready, then go for it. But it will hurt the first time, it going to be like a hand buzzer but only a little harder

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