Isn't this wrong?

My cousin is engaged. His fiance was in an accident 2 months ago and shes been in the hospital ever since. Doctors believe that she’ll recover soon. They were going to get married next year. I’ve recently found out that he’s been messing around with girls. I’ve heard that he has cheated on her but stopped when she found out. Now he’s back in action. Isn’t it wrong for him to be doing this while his fiance is in the hospital suffering? Why are some men ( not all ) such dogs? Is s*x that important? We don’t know what to do. Should we should tell her? If we do, she’ll be devastated. What do you think?

Answer #1

Honestly, messing around with other girls is just as bad as actually having sex with them…if he’s doing something that he wouldn’t want her to find out about then he’s cheating on her.

As for telling her…make sure that you can back up what you say.

And yes it’s wrong of him to do that but some guys are selfish and can’t think about how their actions are going to hurt someone else. When you love someone, really love them you wouldn’t even think about doing anything with someone else. So if it was me, I would want to know.

Answer #2

Make sure that he’s actually f*ing other girls before telling her. otherwise you’ll ruin what they have. if he is, make sure you go about telling her gently.

Answer #3

I agree with the above first do mke sure that these alligations are true if they are, yes wht he doing is wrong wether shes in the hospital or not if hes sleeping with other girls hes still chetng on her and is being very disrespectful if ts true, he doesnt deserve her but im not sure if telling her now while shes in hospital would be the best time if you do choose to tell her while shes in there try to be encouraging, and say tha hes nt worth t, shell find soemone better, maybe bring her some flowers/chocolates/ice cream, ect something to cheer her up

Answer #4

I think if he has had the will to cheat on her before, then he obviously might be able to do it again.

and if you guys suspect he is doing it again, and can actually back it up with evidence, then you should confront your cousin about it.

cause to tell you the truth, this young couple is about to make a mistake if they get married. they are bound to get divorced like many other couples.

save her the time and pain of it happening later in the future. do it after she recovers though.

you might be able to tell your cousin first though. so maybe he has the guts to tell her himself.

but if you do care about this girl. and your cousin does confess, and tries to still stay with her, make sure you make it clear to your cousins fiance, that staying together is a mistake, and that she should find someone better than your cousin.

if you really care about her

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