Haven't had a boyfriend yet and I am almost 18?

Is it bad that I haven’t had a boyfriend yet and I am almost 18? Is it also bad I have never kissed anyone?

Answer #1

I was in the same situation as you but it got worse. My problem was that I was and still are not comfortable with other people. I didn’t get to Kiss a girl until after I turned 22. After that experience it got easier. Something that you have going on to your advantage is that you are a pretty girl so is not your looks.

Answer #2

nooo thats not bad you just havent found the right one yet. Just hang in there because when the right one comes along you would be so happy that you waited. Plus not kissing could be good to because you should want to save the perfect kisss for the perfect mate

Answer #3

no its not bad other people might say its bad but its really not uits no need to rush the right one is going to come along soon and if your shy that can be a reason too dont be so shy with boys its kind of unattractibg to them

Answer #4

nooo thats not bad you just havent found the right one yet. Just hang in there because when the right one comes along you would be so happy that you waited. Plus not kissing could be good to because you should want to save the perfect kisss for the perfect mate

Answer #5

Nah it’s not bad at all. I’m in the same situation - 20 and I’ve never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. I think it’s a question of when the time’s right for you. I wouldn’t worry about it, a boy will probably come along when you least expect it! :)

Answer #6

omg I was worried I havent done that and im 15 gd to know there are those oldr than me but I know that 1 day we’ll meet someone my dads only girlfriend was my mum they met at 22 im generally shy and think im ugly, every1 compares me to my twin and like her more so I focus on my smarts as im much much muchhh smarter than her no offence and hope that in the end as we all grow old and wrinkly a guy will realise looks don’t matter

Answer #7

Hmmm. Not bad, but the time arrived. Do not be so reserved. You look nice, so you should find an acceptable boy.

Answer #8

I am 16 and I have never had a boyfriend, it worries me but hearing that other people feel the same way it makes me more confident that I will find someone one day :)

Answer #9

I know exactly how you feel.am also in the exact case with you and sometimes it could get really annoying because I just dont see any reason why I do not deserve to have a boyfriend, but then on second thoughts I remember that the right guy is yet to come. am not sayin you should wait your entire life for the right guy, but trust me he is in there somewhere just look harder you will be suprised he has been there all this while.

Answer #10

iam about to turn 23 and I havent had a boyfriend I have kissed people tho I don’t talk to men I like the look of I go all shy and my mates get in there 1st I don’t no wear to start to look for a lad am good looken 2 so its not that I just dont feel ready yet every1 is different hun you will be ok I joke an say am going end up the 40 year old virgen with lots of cats lol but when I am ready I am going go 4 it I hope I meet someone to love not someone to sleep with or kiss I think you will be ok clam down and just go with it when it feels right x

Answer #11

No, it isn’t bad if you never had a boyfriend yet or kissed. I can tell you, I didn’t start dating until I was 21. The first time that I dated at 21, the man I went out with lived in the apartment building I live in now he was rushing things which made me skeptical and uncomfortable. I broke up with him shortly after a few months which was back in 2005 or 2006. I can’t remember which date though. I didn’t start dating again until I went online and found a couple of men but, one man that I’m becoming serious is from Nashville Tenasee and I’m from Michigan and, we’re real serious. He’ll be coming out to see me in September. It’s normal to be impatient and, someone will want to date you one of these days. The lord puts people in different places. I’m sure that the Lord will put someone in front of you. You just need to be patient. I know the feeling of wanting a man and, it’s tough being single. Being single is alright in a way, but, yet we all get lonely and need someone to love. Since I’m involved with someone from Nashville, I know that him and I will get along good. As women, we tend to be a bit desperate to find love. I know that you’ll find Mr. Right. As they say, there’s a man for every woman. And, you’ll find that special someone but, it takes time. (Pray about it, and, someday, you’re dreams will come true). I wish you the best of luck and, be patient, you’ll find that right man.

Answer #12

Well as you may know everybody is split up into catagoreys, Popular,gothic, retarded, smart, geeks, and the out cast! Now I have been through this situation before! You see I was being asked out by some guys that I didn’t quite know or they weren’t who I wanted! I was in the gothic group, please don’t get scared of me I am very nice but you see I wanted to get asked out by a hot guy or someone kinda popular! But I knew that it was never going to happen because I was in the gothic catagorey and I am who I am so I had to settle with people like me! So I said yes to the people who did ask me out and it turns out they are just like me, me had a lot in comman, and because I didn’t pay much attention to him before I noticed that he is hot! So if you know someone who might like you just ask them yourself! Any more question just ask me Winter Michelle Iero!

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