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Is my fiancee jealous of my new job?

Thank you all so much for the great feed back. I guess there was one event that happened that sent me over. I switched jobs because the job that I had was killing me. I was stressed out and upset almost everyday and so I decided to get a better job with more money and better benefits. My fiancee’s feeling is … We are planning a wedding and you don’t need to swith jobs right now. To make a long story short I talked to him about it before I made the decision after I was hired and he was not supportive at all. He suggested me stay at a job where I was miserable, because he did not think that changing jobs while we are planning a wedding was such a good idea. I agree with him but since I was offered the new position what was a girl to do??? In fact he wasvery adamit about it which by the way really ticked me off especially since we now work in the same city. I just wanted to be supported not told to stay in a bad work environment, with no opportunity for growth and less money. What do you suppose that was about? I think he should support whatever makes me happy especially if it is a positive thing. I have always supported him even when he made bad decisions I was still there to support him.

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Answer #1

Oh and let me add by saying this. I have been working at my new job for a little over a month now and I asked him the other day if he knew where I worked and he was like some company downtown. I have told him the name of my company on three different occasions and he still doesn’t know where I work what my new position entails nothing. Ok maybe I am nit picking, but I pay close attention I know where he works and what his job entails. I guess I am concerned that he doesn’t care about my career goals and that bothers me. For all he knows I could be a prostitute, would he even care since he didn’t bother to even ask. He says its my fault that he doesn’t know where I work. This is the kind of stuff that makes me wonder about weather of not if I am making the right decision to marry him. When I bring it up he says its old and I should be over it since I have my new job and I am happy and its over but it still bothers me. How could you not know where your Fiancee works ???

Answer #2

probably not.

Answer #3

i was in your situation before so i had a serious talking with my fiancee and i told him about my feelings he told me honestly that he was upset cause he thought that this job would take me from him and would make me busy all the time so all my attention would be concentrated on it instead of him so talk with your fiancee and tell him about your feelings and let him know that he is more important and that you will always be there for him wish you ahappy marriage and congratulation

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