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My Best Freind And His New Gf...am I Jealous Or Over Protective?

theres this guy that i have known for about a year and a half and we are totally into each other.we talk all the time and he tells me he loves me and calls me hun and baby….but he has a gf. i just recently found out about his gf. i was going to ask him out last week when i got an instant message from his gf telling me to stay away from him and that he cant talk to me anymore. i was crushed when she said that and when i asked him about it he told me that he doesnt want me to get in the middle of him and his gf.his gf is sooooo controlling. it has been 3 months since i talked to him and everytime isee that he is online i cry cuz i know that i cant talk to him. i just want things to go back to the way they were and that maybe he could get rid of his gf. about 2 nights ago he called me and asked me to come over, so i said that i would be right over. when i got to his house he was all bruised and crying. his new gf’s ex bf and beaten him up. should him and his new gf break up…and if they do should i take the oppotunity to ask him out or should i give him time…but what if i wait to long for him and he gets a new gf.. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

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Answer #1

ok him and his g broke up cuz of this incident but i dont think he wants a gf right now so i think i will just stay away for awhile but i think i will miss out on my chance of him being mine

Answer #2

If I where u I would go after him because of the fact that u like him and before he told u about his gf he told u that he loved u and did sweet things for u… and it seams to me that he likes u more cus he called u and not his gf…. so yes u should take the opportunity and ask him out

Answer #3

Girl, try to be straight, ask him about the whole matter, ask him that how you should behave in this situation that he produced.

Answer #4

Hun>if he keeps getting new gfs, he obviously doesnt see you more than just a friend! Its hard not to feel sry for him, but if he cant take control of the situation with his gf, than hes a mouse. If he allows himself to be controlled, he is a very insecure person. He needs to tell his gf to tell her ex to keep out of their relationship, or he wont have anything to do with her anymore!

Its not your place to decide if they should break up. Just let him know that your there for him no matter what. Thats what friends are for!

Answer #5

tell him that she said that and that you have been really sad lately. (but say it when his Gf is not there)

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