Is my boy friend using me

Well if he’s a nice guy and he was one of your best friends before you two started dating then can’t you talk to him about anything? if so just tell him to have more respect for your body, you dont mind if he touches (tell him to not allow his friends too) but also not to do it all the time himself… consider going on dates and make them special :)

I agree with ciara17 he doesnt sound like he loves or cares about you at all… in my opinion SOUNDS LIKE HE JUST WANTS SOME BREASTS TO HOLD ONTO

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see that was so childish…that boy doesn’t love you and you should of never said you love him …a guy that loves you would of fought his friend for making out with you. I think you should leave both guys. they are not worth it. and be strong , don’t ever cry in front of a guy , that makes you look weak . and trust me him and his friend are laughing about it. when you get a boyfriend in the future don’t let a his best friend get in the middle and you shouldn’t be that close to his best friend. best friends are the reason a lot of people break up.

you could just use him back? lol

well boys have a lot of sexual urges. so he could just be horny :P

Thanks ciara17

but he is a very nice guy he is very very very caring

Look, you’re really young and kids are stupid. You say you were single when it happened with the friend, so maybe he just figured it was your decision, and once you felt bad about it and decided to be with him he didn’t have any reason to be mad. As for him touching your breasts, well of course he’s going to do it all the time if he can, he’s a teenage boy. If you don’t mind, no problem. If you do, tell him to knock it off. As for his friends touching, it’s a little weird if they do it in front of him… but again, buys are horny and curious. After the first time you let your boyfriend touch your breasts, he probably went and told his friends about it because he was excited, and they all talked about it. If they get to touch a girl’s breasts because of him, it makes him a big shot. It’s sort of lame, but jesus, you’re just kids, you don’t know how to act when it comes to sex.

If you giggle or laugh or playfully knock their hands away when his friends do it, they will figure it’s ok with you and keep it up. If you don’t want his friends touching you, the next time one of them does it look him in the eye and say seriously “That is not OK. Touching me in a sexual way when I don’t want you to is a sexual assault – a form of rape. I understand that you might not have known that before, but the next time you do it I will report you for it, and believe me you don’t want a sexual assault charge on your record for the rest of your life. Don’t do it again, and tell your friends not to do it either, because I’m starting to get pissed off about it, and you really don’t want to piss me off.” Then smile at him and tell him to have a nice day.

sometimes I just am horny, when boys are horny, we arnt in control, its like a whole nother side of use in reveled, we say and do stuff we wouldnt accualy do…