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Is it wrong that I want to be in his son's life?

I have a weird situation… My ex that I was with for 7 months has a 1-year-old son with someone else, obviously they broke up so of course she kept their son away from him for a long time. I was dating him the whole time she kept their son away and I went to all the court dates and everything with him because I knew how much he wanted some custody with his son so I was there to support him. Him and I eventually broke it off mutually because we were just doing a lot of arguing and decided friends would be better. The “friends” deal didn’t work very well, we basically stopped talking. Now its 3 months later and hes talking to me and happily telling me he now has weekends with his son and hes working 2 jobs, I cant even explain how proud I am of him. He wants me to meet his son and I really want to but I know once I meet this child I’m going to be so attached to him because I helped my ex fight to see him so I feel so much care for the child. Is it wrong that I want to be in his son’s life even though we aren’t together right now? (I’m 18, he’s 19)

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No its not, its pretty nice of you actually, most people wouldn’t gt involved with somebody elses child

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