Is it wrong for me wanting to have a baby?

Wow, honey, you are so young…

Yes, I can understand the desire to be a mom - to love someone so unconditionally and feel that love back, to know that someone depends so much on you…it’s a wonderful thing being a mom.

However, you have so much time ahead of you…you need to just be a teen while you can, because you only get to do that once…when you’ve become an adult, with adult responsibilities (like a baby), you’re stuck with it for the rest of your life…there’s no going back.

Just enjoy the liberation of being young for awhile, don’t be in such a rush to grow up.

I hope you’re not pregnant, I really do, because you need to just be free as long as you can…and I know, I was a teen mom, and nothing can ever replace the years I lost..years that should have been spent enjoying life…

Humans have natural reproductive and maternal instincts, but from the sounds of it, the latter doesn’t seem to be effecting you as much as your own, (seemingly) misguided wants. Do you REALLY think that a relationship this early on in life will last? Or assuming it does, be successful and fulfilling? This is why you’re not supposed to have sex till you’re 18! And I don’t believe most people MY age are ready for all of that. I personally am just now coming to the point of dating in search of a serious, long-term relationship, one that I hope eventually results in marriage. And only after a few years of that do I have any intent of having children.

I hope you are not pregnant, but, in all seriousness, for God’s sake, make sure that the baby is taken care of if you are. You have so much ahead of you, and so much that will change by the time you’re an adult. Don’t wish that away on a surge of hormones.

not at all. I wanted one.. im 16.. I lost mine and it broke my heart.. wanting to be a mommy is a lot of work tho.. I mean bein a mommy that is lol.. but if it ssomething you really want.. dont let no one make you do something you dont wanna do.. if you wanna keep it than keep it.. im pretty sure if you put your mind to it youll be the best mommy you can be.

I can totally understand the excitement of wanting it to be positive. I was a teen mom (19) and I saw having a baby was an adventure. And who wouldn’t want that! :0) Now I love my daughter with all of my heart, she’s 7 now, and I believe with all of my heart that she changed my life for the better. But if I were to do it over again, I would choose to see the world first and experience so much more in life. I’m in college now and it would be so much easier if I didn’t have to regulate my time between her and my school work. I can’t even study until she goes to bed at night and it leaves me ABSOLUTELY EXHAUSTED. So please consider waiting a little while longer. You’re going to wish you had.