Is his happiness more important

you know what it’s a great challenge of LOVE. That girl doesn’t really love you dad she just makes him happy everytime they meet but actually that girl don’t know what is love. Don’t be angry at your dad’s decision of dating that useless woman.As much as possible be the most humble among the three of you. Before you could tell him anything, just say to you dad that you love him so much, and you would be willing to abide whatever decision he may chose, but let is not be a foulplay that she slapped you on your face.Let your dad know that despite of her maltreatment on you, you love her as a person who makes your dad happy. For sure your dad is not a heart blinded guy to see his poor and sad daughter of giving herself even in pain to sacrifice for the happiness of her very own DAD. That could be the steps for your Dad of knowing who and what really is that girl up to.remember just stay calm and humble feel the love, don’t hate the girl instead thank her.It may sound so stupid but that would lead to conscience if you humble. ok?

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You should tell him because even if she makes him happy, if she really loved him and cared about him she would try just as hard to like you. Besides, do you really think your dad would be happy with someone that hits his child? Don’t be intimidated!!! I have four boys and I’m just starting to date again. I found someone that makes me happy but if he ever hit my kids it would be over in a heartbeat! Boyfriends and girlfriends come and go but your kids will always be there. I’m sure she’s not the only one in this world that could make your dad happy!

You need to tell him! Its great that you want to make your dad happy but she doesnt have the right to give you verbal and physical abuse! Im sure if your dad knew what was going on and what she was really like then he wouldnt be happy to know that his Daughter is unhappy. So tell him and if your not sure that hes going to believe you record it on your phone like a voice recording of what she says then you can show and prove to your dad your not lieing about it. Hope I helped x

You need to tell him what’s going on. His happiness is important, but so is yours. He can always find someone else or something else to make him happy, but if he sticks with her, than you’re stuck with her as well.

And if she hits you again, call the police and have her charged with assult/child abuse(which ever fits the situation, I guess..). You shouldn’t have to suffer through that.

You need to tell him. Yes, it’s great you want him to be happy, but she can’t treat you like that. If she loved your dad so much, why would she treat his kids that way? That’s not right.